I can't do the lawn work anymore.

My state of health doesn't really allow that, but I have a youngish friend (18) who does it for me. He also, if required, changes bed sheets, does laundry, grooms the dog, collects garbage, vacuums the house and does various repairs. Found him in a garage where he was working as a mechanic. He'll be doing mostly outdoor work now because I'm entitled to home care from a government agency (because of my illness). That's still being arranged, but I'll probably get 5 hours a week or so without charge. Somersault P.S. He's nice, good looking, very friendly, but not even close to gay (though he has no problem with others being so). I've now convinced him to accept payment for work done; for close to a year he refused to take anything.